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Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Can't Be Friends...?

What do you do when you want something you cant have? Most will still try just because the thought of it > than the reality of the situation. It will def be an emotional roller coaster but it will be the time of your life. At the same time while u r having a good time how many loops can u take before it gets old and it loses value? In these type of relationships every step u take forward u take 1 back so at the end of the day u finish where u started. BUT it will def be worth it cause with every step u take regardless of the direction u get closer. When a female becomes your lover and bestfriend when you end it your phone doesn't vibrate as much and u feel like you just want to sleep until the next day cuz that day will be bad no matter what. You can't really be friends because you can't turn the switch of love on and off so everything is lost. Like Drake said "time heals all" so eventually getting back on the same page and being there for each other becomes an option...just no time soon? This is when questions are asked and you look at your phone and put it back down cuz u don't know the answer. Tweets start to hold more value but #honestly both knew what they were getting into #kanyeshrug. It will always feel like your one text away from rekindling the whole situation, just save it as a draft and read over it before u press send. So when it comes down to it either follow @yourheart or @yourthoughts. If I was in this situation I would follow @myheart because tomorrow isn't promised and why not love who u want while your here right? So, "Can't be friends...?" is the title cause its the question I wonder if anybody has the answer to?


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4 comments:

  1. The question of what direction to follow depends on the intentions of your heart and the state of your mind. Young people too often give birth to life before its time and then find themselves hurt that this love does not last the eternity that they had hoped. whereas the real problem is that they indulged in something with the wrong intentions and under the wrong state of mind. Love should only be sought when we are longing for a life partner and ready to take the responsibility that comes with that adventure and journey. wether then just seek a temporary satisfication and emotional comfort because of our inability to stay alone until the time is right.
    Be blessed with your wisdom bro

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  2. You cant be friend with someone you love. You can try, but your always gonna have it in the back of your mind that *one day* something will be. It sucks. You can try, but I think yours setting yourself up for disater and heard ache. But at the end of the day, you know what you can and cannot handle. And people ultimately do what makes them happy, regardless whether the action is right or wrong. As long as you know that, and your making yourself happy, and you dont expect anything, GO FOR IT...

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  3. I agree with everything you said right there, it does suck but you can't do anything about it but try or not try that simple really.

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